How a Woman Can Achieve an Orgasm During Sex

Let's face it, we all have the natural urge and desire for sexual satisfaction and while statistics say that approximately 75% of women don't orgasm during intercourse (or what I like to call "love play") that doesn't mean that women can't find other ways, or means, to get to where they want to go, and that of course is to the top of the orgasmic chart.

Most women need clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm and this can be achieved in many ways, being by way of self-pleasure (using your hand(s), his hand(s) or with your new best friend B.O.B. (battery operated boyfriend)). Of course for those of us in relationships this doesn't mean that B.O.B. is going to replace your own lover. I mean as fun as what B.O.B. will be, he will never be able to give you cuddles, write you poems, take you to dinner or make you laugh... although he might make you giggle a little bit.

Women deserve to have ALL of their sexual needs met, whether it's a solo mission or during "love play" and what better way than to use a sex toy. If you are introducing B.O.B. into your relationship, while most men will be doing cartwheels and be excited by the idea of you using a sex toy, some men may feel quite intimidated and feel like they are being replaced. These men just need to be reassured that it is just a bit of fun and that it will enhance your relationship and that he will always be your favourite.

There are also other toys that you can introduce into your relationship like whips, handcuffs, play paddles or of course you can dress up in your favourite fantasy costume.

If you feel like you need some help in certain departments in the bedroom, then a sex educational DVD is a great place to start. It not only gives you tips on "how to" but they are also "R" rated and can be a great "starter" while you are watching them.

Remember... have fun and play safe!