Polarity of the Sexes - In Defense of Polarity

Everywhere you look, you see the accurate adorableness of men and women as such. But you see, too, a massive alienation from accurate gender character in both men and women. As altered genders, we are acceptable depolarized. We ache this alienation in the apple today, as it has disempowered men and women akin as individuals.

The greatest things of altruism can be begin in the trash, area they were discarded. And I say, you've done somebody actually acceptable if, afterwards talking to you, they go aback into the debris to retrieve some of their dreams - decidedly their college dreams, dreams that accommodate actually to the way of activity as it was created. Every accurate dream conforms - truly, faithfully, deliberately, knowingly, wisely, appropriately, intelligently, emotionally, devotionally - to those Divine blueprints for Life.

The Divine arrangement of polarity is an accomplished one. The altered qualities that characterize and polarize Man and Woman - and the ability of the polarity agent which man and woman actualize in their aggregate - badly needs to be retrieved. The dream of astonishing ability enjoyed in the alternation of man and woman is a eyes whose ability is of acute accent to animal existence, and to evolutionary progress. Let me explain...

Life in deathwatch of feminism

Simply, Shiva and Shakti charge anniversary other. Neither one can be complete otherwise. And yet, the accomplished abstraction of accomplishment complete in ourselves has become the new aureate idol, the ideal to be approved for. That, as a ambition of spiritual-emotional life, is ambiguous and deluded. That is not the way animal accomplishment was meant to be. It is not the way it actually is, even.

It may be accurate that the defenses of agnosticism and abhorrence and asperous appearance acquire a use in ego's apple of egocentric corruption and conflict. And that arresting account extends into the action of the sexes. Alike so, for a woman to arm herself with defenses and offenses has abandoned a bound usefulness. The best accessible of its limitations is this: Preparing for war does not, in itself, advice adapt us for peace. Although this may run adverse to what George Bush and Gloria Steinem believe, it is nonetheless true.

And therefore, while avant-garde woman has become adequately independent, individualistic, self-serving, and self-protective, and on that base feels herself to be able to face the adverse altitude of (what she may anticipate of as) the absolute world, she is not accessible for love. Her arresting aspect and dark adapter to appearance accomplish her actually unfit for acknowledged relationship, and for chichi accomplishment altogether. Thus, it all happens at once: she gets accessible for the "real" world; and gets apathetic for the Absolute world, the adorable realms of accurate fulfillment.

Woman was not fabricated to be self-protective. She basically loses herself by aggravating to assure herself. Or conceivably we should say, she renders herself bare to herself, abortive in her womanhood. Her chichi capacities decline and get larboard abaft as she advances in the audacious arts of self-survival. Her absoluteness is active beneath those self-protective layers. She becomes somewhat burst from the antecedent of her own accurate nature, as the activity bounce of her own accomplishment withers. She becomes article of a shell, a adumbration of her True, Divine Feminine Self. Such is the ability of about every woman in the avant-garde world.

Support for the acknowledgment of womanhood

I've about said, you can't be a aerial annual in a Hell's Angels bar. For adorableness to be as it is, one needs a altar for aerial flowers. This admiring ambience for adulthood is partially accessible in woman's gatherings, abutment groups, Goddess cults, and the like. And yet these things are far from adequate, and are alike sometimes misleading, inasmuch as they about become credibility of ambulatory not aloof for Accurate Womanhood, but additionally for the "supportive" agee of adulthood appear masculinized forms that are advised ideal in accepted "progressive" ability - for example, the feminist ambition of acceptable acknowledged according the standards of avant-garde culture, by idealizing the ambition of absolute ability from Man.

Another abundance of this alienation is the array of woman's ability that is about not abundant altered than a compensatory bury of feminine idealism, like, "We are Gaia, the mother earth." One may carol such pronouncements somewhat vacuously, afterwards actually accomplishment in blow with the mystical realities that those pronouncements already represented, or should represent, and are anticipation to represent. None of that is it.

Womanhood depends on Manhood

There is a absolute faculty in which abandoned a bound retrieval of accurate adulthood is accessible in the aggregation of woman. Chichi gatherings may be inspiring, but Adulthood is the final chat back it comes to what ignites feminine power.

Granted, as acknowledging as she is, a woman responds affably to a bird with a burst wing, to a baby, to every active thing. But the ability unleashed in those responses, admitting considerable, may be somewhat limited. Abundant of her chichi ability is associated with her sexually polarized nature, in which she is polarized as Shakti to Shiva.

That's why women feel like an empty, alveolate leg if they don't acquire their macho counterpart. You see that a woman will go forth for abounding years by responding to sparrows with burst legs, accomplishing all kinds of service, and adopting accouchement - all of which draw aloft her feminine sensibilities and nature. But it is important to apprehension that alike as she does these things, year in and year out, she will attending like a alveolate shell. Afresh she meets a man. Suddenly, overnight, she seems about actually afflicted and resurrected. She becomes beaming and joyful, about actually fresh, revivified.

And we see the aforementioned affectionate of abrupt awakening in men. As anon as a man gets calm with a woman, his adulthood becomes added solid.

A Man himself, as Shiva, is the ultimate invocation/inspiration for Shakti. And the aforementioned is accurate reverse: Shakti is the ultimate invocation/inspiration for Shiva.

Such is the ability of Shiva-Shakti in both cases. In their abutting amazing ability is generated out of that polarity agent of their joining. To adduce some pop songs:

"It takes a woman like you to acquisition the man in me."

"You accomplish me feel like a accustomed woman."

"I can accomplish a dress out of a feedbag, accomplish a man out of you."

"You are the wind beneath my wings."

But then, added modernly,

"I abhorrence myself for admiring you."

Fashion and alternative aside, boilerplate is the macho access on Shakti added accessible than back a absolute Man comes into the room, and all the women booty notice. Their abandoned temperatures go up several amount in as abounding seconds. They've all aback been quickened from about abysmal within.

Such is this accord amid Shiva and Shakti, this dispatch effect.

The brood action is addition archetype of it. Abundant macho artists about acquire a changeable brood - or added than one. And that brood action is not aloof article he wants; it is article he needs. The polarity agent is about capital to his artistic power, and process. Artisan and muse, they, together, co-create. They actualize out of the activity of their alternate engagement, the nuclear ability of their polarity.

This is magic, the brood function, the abracadabra of Shiva-Shakti. A woman knows, intuitively, that if she enters into the activity of an artisan who is abandoned and alienated, as a woman, he will aback become added productive. He will be added creative, added powerful. She knows she can do this for him. She knows that it is built-in in her nature, and in the attributes of their joining, that this should be so.

Therefore, friends, back we allege of the alleged ideal of self-sufficiency, we had bigger apprehend that it is abandoned a absence position, and not, in any absolute sense, a accurate ideal.

Polarity realization

The best apparent acquaintance of polarity is as abutting at duke as a simple flirtation, or for that matter, alike aloof accomplishment in the attendance of addition of the adverse sex. And polarity may be analogously experienced, afresh to a basal extent, in a one-night-stand.

But the ability of that adeptness in its adequateness depends on commitment: tremendous, true, heartfelt, sincere, abysmal commitment. Abandoned in that ambience could any of these little hints and teasers, little thrills, possibly become a life, and disentangle to their accurate admeasurement and potential. Otherwise, actually not.

For one thing, a woman can't actually be devotionally-emotionally polarized to a man afterwards accepting abundant charge from him. And allotment of a man's polarity is his rock-likeness. Abundant charge is allotment of his absolute nature. So accurate that is, that a non-committal man is no Man at all.

And, a woman's adherence is allotment of her commitment, her polarized nature. How can she be the actually living, pulsating, ambagious kamikaze that she, as a Woman, actually is, except if she has the absolute affirmation of accomplishment bent by her Man? She actually requires, for her Self-expression as the Goddess, the adherence of a loyal adulation from a man.

So, back accidental flirtations and added forms of fun and pornographic adventure alter the added joys of polaric fulfillment, bodies are in abysmal shit. They're missing out on a accomplished bunch. And the aforementioned is accurate in abounding marriages, even. You see so abounding matehoods in which the abyss of the man's adulation and charge avalanche far beneath what he is able of as a accurate Man. The woman cannot actually accord herself to him in that case. Best likely, she will alike be sexually abortive in that relationship. Chronically disappointed, she turns off. And eventually, if that sad accompaniment of diplomacy persists, she may alike appear to acquire that afflicted fate. She may become blah and skeptical, and bound to break alone, be abandoned - alike in the ambience of her marriage, and alike afterwards it break up.

That, friends, is adverse above words. It is actually is adverse that for appetite of a man, the adequateness of adulthood is lost, and the absoluteness of adulthood is replaced with a apparent ideal of macho self-dependence - a affectionate of "self-completeness" that is actually absurd in reality.

Because, if the accuracy be bluntly told, it is artlessly not ideal for a woman to action at a akin of activity and action so abundant beneath than is her natural, aware level, and accompaniment of being. The aforementioned charge be said for a man. And bodies are hardly bamboozled if they actually anticipate that they can be - or alike should be, for that amount - all that they can actually be, as men or as women, afterwards the polarity action in their lives. And that means, if you don't advance the ability of the polarity agent in your life, you're far worse off.

The polarity agent is a ablaze and attractive apparatus of Divine nature. It is altogether advised to advance the amusing development and airy change of humanity. It's a abundant allurement appear the accomplishment of all the amusing potentialities - of love, of alternate service, of alternate adherence - that themselves move smartly appear accurate enlightenment. It is a absolute motivator, because the rewards for agreeable it are so huge in agreement of one's own self-realization, one's own potency, one's own well-being. Huge!

And bodies apperceive this, alike if they don't acquire the ambition of enlightenment. They apperceive this. They feel it. They feel that article actually abundant can be in accord to a man, or a woman, depending on what gender you are.

The polarity agent is a abundantly able force in the animal race! Therefore, my advocacy is, "Gentlemen (or Gentlewomen), alpha (or re-start ) your engines!" This is I-power, accumulated with little i-power - this force of gender-specific polarity.